I like this guy and we used to talk A LOT but we always stopped talking and then started talking again. But now we haven’t talked for months.

Backstory: we were best friends when we were kids but then he moved away and we never talked. A year ago he started to follow me on Instagram and asked for my snap. After that we flirted for a long time. I had the biggest crush on him then and could never stop thinking about him. I was super sure ( and my friends too ) that he liked me back because he was the one that most of the time texted first and asked how my day was. He said that he would like to go on a date with me sometime and just lay in bed and cuddle. But then we stopped talking to each other completely. I wanted to text him but I got super insecure when I saw him commenting other girls post like “ daaamn😍🤪” and “😏🤤🥵”. So then I was convinced that he didn’t like me and that he was just another horny 18 year old boy wanting a 16 year old girl.

There are so many times where I find myself thinking about him and wanting to text him. He lives far away and I will never run in to him and we will probably not meet again. I just want to talk to him because he made me feel really happy but again, I’m scared that he is using me.

Maybe this post is too messy for you to give me advice but what would you do in this situation? Just text him casually or get over him?? Please help