Help!

I am having trouble with orgasming. I don’t know why, but I have never orgasmed during sex and the only way to do it normally is on my own. I enjoy sex, very much, but I can’t ever get the Big Bang.

Can you give me some tips on how to make myself orgasm?

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Kr

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You very likely know the answer without realizing it. When you masturbate, you stimulate your clitoris. Most women do not get the stimulation they need around their clitoris during sex. This is because of their anatomy (clitoris far from vaginal entrance) and because of technique.The techniques are easy to learn. It may feel unnatural at first, but it will soon become natural. You have to make sure your clitoris participate in the fun. You (or him) can rub it or use a small clitoral vibrator while he is inside you. Some positions are easier for this - doggy, you on top, or your feet up from the floor/bed.You can also tilt your pelvis so that your clitoris is touchung his body when he is inside you. The rub/squeeze/grind on him in small motions, back and forth, or in small circles. This is easiest to learn when you are on top and lean forward. There is no rule that says sex should be an up/down, in/out affair.. Rubbing, grinding and squeezing is your friend.