Help ttc #1

Em

I had intercourse the once on 14th August, ovulated on the 18th. My cycle is usually 34-35days long. Now cd 36 (16dpo)and still no af. I have had cramping, no way near as bad as usual, my boobs are so sore & I have noticed veins stand out a little more than usual(I never examine my boobs much but I'm sure they have never looked veiny like this before) my nipples are sore/kind of numb at the same time. I wouldn't say have grown much in size but something seems different, my Areolas also look slightly darker than Normal I believe but not 100% sure as like I said I never properly examine them. Ive been feeling a bit more tired than usual lately and my god is my body aching, the back aches take the energy out of me. Also been a bit emotional lately my emotions been a bit over the place but have been like that before.

I tested a couple of days ago and BFN :(

haven't tested this morning as need to go get some more tests but all I've had is BFN after BFN & I'm tired of getting my hopes up to be let down. I feel like something is odd this month however at the same time I'm thinking I'll say that and my af will arrive.

Please can you guys comment your experiences with early symptoms and at how many dpo did you get your bfp? I know every single person is different.. but I just want to listen to your experiences for a bit of peace of mind.

Please please let me know how you have got on with your pregnancy.

Also babydust to all of you who may be in the same place as me! :) I wish you all the best xx