Dry spell?

Is this normal...

I’m 25 and he is 32

I pretty much would like to have sex every day even multiple times on a good day.

He doesn’t. He says his testosterone is low from a past of taking steroids.

We often have dry spells where we don’t have sex for over a week then of course I start to get grouchy and then I think he just has sex with me because he feels obligated to.

I don’t try to prompt it much cause he seems to get irritated or won’t be in the mood or tired etc.

We even got drunk together for the first time in a LONG time last night and I tried rubbing on his dick and said nah just hold it don’t rub it...

Please help.. 😥