Wedding rant

So a good friend of mine is getting married tomorrow and the rehearsal is tonight. The rehearsal is 1.5 hrs away from where I live and starts at 6 pm and goes until 9 pm.I am a bridesmaid and expected to be there. My baby is 6 months old and will not take a bottle, we have tried. One of the bridesmaids just posted that kids are NOT welcome, which is news to me. I texted the bride and explained that my husband will be there to watch her so that I can participate in everything, if that was okay. I haven’t received a response from her but she is notorious for not texting back. So I’m posting to ask all of your opinion on what I should do. Checked with the venue and they are kid friendly. Me and my cutie pie!

Update;

So I never heard from the bride today, so I ended up bringing my baby with me. There were 3 other babies, so it was all fine. My daughter was an angel for her daddy while the rehearsal went on and then we all enjoyed dinner. Thank you all for the advice it was greatly appreciated!