Help to stop being controlling

I wanted to know if I was a controlling person because I like to know everyone where abouts; mostly my boyfriend its not crazy phyco girl .I just like too know where he is going ,what is he doing there ,if you leave call me ,if your getting sleep and know you want be able to call or text let me know I might sound crazy lol but yeah .....I know this comes from past issues with my mom leaving for work and never returning (she pasted) so I jus have know where he is my own sanity ..... ANY ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO