Just a question 😊

So I’ve recently become sexually active, I’m 16 we’re being completely safe, but I can never get off. He will cum 2-3 times and I still don’t feel anything. I’m just wondering if there’s any tricks or anything to maybe loosen myself up or have a more pleasurable time? Just a side note I’ve never had an orgasm masturbating either. I get hot and horny but nothing ever really happens and it’s extremely frustrating. Does anyone else have this problem/ know how to fix it?? Thank you!