Heey ladies I want some advice and opinions!! My SO and I have been together for almost 6years, We have one daughter and his daughter I consider my step-daughter. I've known her since she was 4years old now she's 10. I try my best to be a great step-mom do all the shopping cooking and "girls out weekends"nail salon trips, hair styles the works. He has to work every weekend and is only off on Thursdays, I still go and pick her up and have a ball with her, even though her dad doesn't get off until 10pm. I pride myself in making him happy and always put him first(before my family friends Everyone) We've had phsical fights and some bad arguments but I try to move past them and realize that he is stressed and I may have "prevoked" the argument/fight as he says. We have a great sex life and were suppose to be TTC for his boy. Today we had a small spiff about my brother "real family" ect petty stuff.. He ended up saying I don't deserve an engagement ring thats why he never got me one and he could have bought a NICE ASS one in two months if he wanted to... I had myself convinced we couldn't afford it.. That hurt me beyond belief.. ESPECIALLY since he bought his daughter's mom who had him shot twice, robbed and stabbed and sold his car a platinum 2k ring after two years smh.. I've been with him through ANYTHING you can think of.. I'm starting to feel like I've wasted my time with him and that'll he'll never value me.. Please vote and give any thoughts or advice!!
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