Husband non supportive of working

I find myself a broken record on this topic...

My little guy is due to go to daycare starting Monday. He is 5 months. This is actually a referral from a family member that suggested this and the daycare I am very comfortable with.

My husband has not been supported in anyway of this decision. Tonight he even got into an argument with me about saying how stupid it was for me to go back.

My husband makes about 160k a year. I make around 85-90k. We are in NYC

I have worked hard to get where I am. Now he is saying this is not what we agreed upon and I should be home with our son instead of him in the care of another staring at a wall all day. My emotions are everywhere and I feel like a shit mom at this point.

He complains about his long days all the time and its almost like. I’m doing nothing all day. I want to contribute and I want to also be able to support my son and myself. This has been a battle and I’m in tears right now. This was not what I imagined it to be.

Im just at a loss. Questioning everything.