I feel discouraged :( My first ever OB

Jada • USMC WIFE ❤️🇺🇸 22 🤰 with #1 baby boy💙 MF infertility. Hashimotos hypothyroidism, polyps,

Today I had my very first OB appointment. My husband and I have been try for a year (in August)

My Dr was so cold hearted, he told me that my weight is the only reason why I haven't gotten pregnant. I have always been a big girl! But ever since I started my synthroid (for my hashimoto's hypothyroidism) I have gained a lot of weight and I am having a really hard time losing it!

He says that he is going to put in labs to have me tested for PCOS. But "you don't look like you have it because you don't have any facial hair growth of bad ache."

He says that if we were to continue with any fertility related things that we could only do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> is not covered my military Drs. And <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> is thousands of dollars.

He "you are getting positive opks, so that means that you are Ovulating" he told me that I am young and that I still have time.

He told me there is nothing further they can do. He said that even if he sees me losing 50lbd that I still would be super high risk. So he told me not to try anymore until I lose weight.

He put labs in for testing me with PCOS, and a semen analysis for my husband. To check him off the list.

I sat in my car and cried, I cried the whole way home. I have been trying my hardest lose weight. I have went GF, I work on my feet all day in a store so I am constantly on my feet. Everyone is saying I should get a second opinion!