underappreaciated /:

I don’t know if this is the wrong place, but i’m a first time mom & a SAHM. I enjoy motherhood. My child is bright and loving. My SO is very....lacking? He doesn’t show me affection or appreciation. I stay home and cook and clean and teach our child. My SO comes home from work everyday, lousy mood. I’m so over it I have a mom group and enjoy the positivity but want to experience it from my SO /: I have tried talking to him. Any Advice? thank you.

I have expressed my need for affection & empathy through tears, words & actions. I have attempted to convey that we need more balance. I’ve asked about therapy and he was completely offended and said therapy was stupid. I feel like my relationship is broken, and i’m so sad.