Am I the only one who feels like this and how can I get over it?

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Have you ever liked a guy and then you see a different guy and think ooo he's cuter maybe I should hold off until I find someone cuter? I feel like a horrible person when I feel like this but I can't seem to help it. I think I'm just scared of committing to someone because I've been hurt before and I think that's why I feel when I see someone cuter then the guy I like that I could do better? I just dont know. Is this normal? Has it happened to you before?

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Shallow

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That's not normal

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Check it out baby girl. Grow up! You are acting shallow and treating yourself and others poorly. Nothing good is going to come from that. You'll never find anything or anyone good if you keep this up this current mindset you have. You're personality seems very young so I understand that you probably do have some growing up to do. There is a lot more to a person than just their looks. If you're only looking skin deep then don't be surprised when you find yourself hurt.

Yes, you do have to be attracted to the person you're with, but you need to be looking for and choose someone who is good to you, that respects you, and that is real with you. Someone you can admire for more than just their looks and someone who makes you HAPPY. I guarantee you that when you start looking for the right qualities in someone, you'll learn a thing or two about how to love yourself better and how to love someone else.

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Although you are attracted to someone because of their looks, that should honestly be the last thing on your mind when trying to final a paretner. Honesty, loyalty, peronality, humor.... all of these things should be what you are looking at and when you find that person, no matter how they look to someone else, will be the most attractive to you because you have fallen in love with them and not their looks.

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You should be basing "liking" someone off of their personality. Not their looks. Get to know someone instead of judging them of their looks.

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I know how you feel about being hurt. I was hurt... Multiple times. So i stopped saying that i love people. I want to sat it again but not until i actually find the right person. I am currently looking for someone to settle down with. There are three guys basically fighting over me. And theyre all related... Two are brothers and the other is a cousin. However i told all of them that im not looking to date them. Im looking for commitment and someone i can fall back on if anything goes awry. And they are not the type to want to go anywhere in lifr. So no im not gonna date them. U should look for someone who u know u can depwnd on. Not just their looks. Their looks may be a bonis but shouldnt be the sole reason u settle down sith someone.

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No. Thats Not Good Thinking. My SO Isnt The Traditional Type Of Cute But I Dont Care. I Can See A Really Cute Boy And Think Oh He's Cute But Thats It. I Love My SO He Looks Damn Good To Me Since I Met Him 2 Years Ago, Its Not Always About Looks. That's Pretty Shallow

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Cuter? If thats all youre basing it on, you dont deserve either of them. What if they came across someone more attractive than you and left?

Am I the only one who feels like this and how can I get over it?

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