Relationship advice

So every night I ft my bf( long distance) and recently it’s been quite the bother. He plays xbox for quite some time then immediately after tells me that I “look tired” and he’s going to “let me go to bed.” It’s making me so genuinely angry because I’m not face timing him so I can watch him play xbox then get hung up on. Tonight I told him several times that I WANT to talk to him and he proceeded to say “alright love you sleep well” and end the conversation. I’m so pissed right now. I’ve told him several times that when we talk now that I feel like I’m bothering him but he tells me I’m not then blows me off. How am I supposed to bring this up to him without him getting angry or bothering him?

Sorry I know that was a lot but I genuinely can’t express how angry I am and I desperately need advice right now