Im 9dpo shouldn't I have something starting by now?

Meeya • 2016-Planned surprize -2015 TTCcrazy Got preg n aug.Then started m/c on 🎃.went into full labor mid dec delivered full sac the size of a cantelope.single most horrible thing ever.NOW JUS HAVN FUN W/IT
Seems like every ttc story I see they see it at 9 dpo. Im wondering if my chances are still good