Crying inside 😭....

I guess I just need some advice .

I’m 19 and have been dating a 21 year old guy for 3 months .Everything has been great however recently we have spoken on the topic of children. I know 3 months is a short time but I think it’s lovely to talk about the future.

Anyways he mentioned that if we were to have kids, he would want them to live with his parents from the age of 5-16. Unfortunately his parents live across the other side of the world🤔and when I tried to explain this he said that is what will happen full stop.

I’ve always wanted a family of my own and to raise my children with my significant other .Therefore I know this is not a decision I would ever agree with.

Is it too harsh to call the quits before my feels for him get deeper?

Please reply , it’s really been on my mind and I need advice 🤷🏾‍♀️😊