How many of you agree that a guy is lying if he can't do the simple things you ask?

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My SO & I are back together cause he's willing to stay sober ... Well he said he had a bowling thing with his company tonight & well I said okay give me the address so I can join he said no cause he would only be there for a short while... I thought this to be sketchy so I asked for pictures of everyone and he's like no that's awkward I'm like how fucking hard is it to take a picture like who cares? People are on their phone snapchatting all the time smfh.

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Relationship is built on trust and if u don't trust him what's left? I do think it's wierd u can't go but it also sounds to me like u only want to go to check in on him if u don't trust him then it won't work out but then it's hard to trust someone if he isn't trying to regain ur trust. It's a hard spot. U need to think bout whether or not u can trust him again.

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It sounds like you have more problems than him staying sober. Why does he need to send you a pic to prove where he is at? Seems like there is more to this. 
I would say trust your gut. Typically, a person is an ex for a good reason & often getting back together doesn't end up working out. Good luck.

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Trust is the biggest make it or break it thing in a relationship.  If you can't trust him one night out, how are you going to eventually trust him if you two continue with your relationship?

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I think he should be able to do simple request. The problem is your request arnt simple. It's pretty strange to ask him to take pictures. There's more trust issues then hemis sobriety

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It is werid for him to randomly start taking pictures of the people he's with if he doesn't normally take pictures. But him not wanting to give you the address for you to meet him up is sketchy.

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My hubs doesn't do some simple things I ask. I don't go jumping to the thought that he was lying though. But my SO doesn't have a problem to where he needs to stay sober and he's never broken my trust. I don't knwo what exactly to tell you. Just don't assume things. It's makes an ASS out of U and ME.

How many of you agree that a guy is lying if he can't do the simple things you ask?

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