I don't know when I'm coming?

Question

I swear when me and my boyfriend makeout (aka kissing, nipple stimulation, and fingering) I can't tell the difference between it just feeling good and me coming. And I know I've definitely come before. We just had sex for the first time today and I thought that MAYBE I would be able to tell a difference this time, but I still didn't. It frustrates me because from the moment we start to the moment we stop it feels the same way the entire time. Anyone know what's wrong with me?

Answer

First of all, there's nothing wrong with you! It's kind of hard to tell at first glance when he's just making you feel amazing and when you're having an orgasm because they both usually feel reaaaally good.

However, after coming (at least in my experience) things tend to get really sensitive, almost like a sudden release of pressure (or sexual pleasure!) 😉 and sometimes it takes a little bit to recover.

Feeling good, however, is... Just feeling good! It means he's turning you on in all the right places to get you hot and bothered. It's more of a continuing thing (that leads up to an orgasm) rather than coming itself.

... Not sure if that's a clear enough distinction, but I hope it helps! 😁

I don't know when I'm coming?

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