relationship problem... or not

sometimes i feel like my relationship is falling apart , like sometimes i feel so upset because i know we have something good but i jus overthink it i guess? it’s hard to explain but i have doubts , their are still some things we’re learning in the relationship because we are young and growing and sometimes i feel we’re not going to make it🤷🏾‍♀️. their are things we don’t always agree on and males move so much more slower mentally.. than females so i jus wonder if our relationship will get better ? like in terms of us putting the same amount of effort and growing as people.. i know it’s hard to understand but it’s much more hard to explain😭.