Temper

I have a temper. It can be bad. I am working very hard to control it and I've been doing a good job. But every time I do control my temper during an argument and keep my composure my SO just tells me I don't care about their feelings. It's so frustrating!! If I yell, I'm acting crazy. If I'm calm, Im an asshole that doesn't care. It's not fair. I can't win.