Finances.....

Months ago he took care of all the finances and we always had late bills and even cut offs.. So I offered to take over the stress of the bills. Once I got us out of the debt and got everything on track, he decided to "help me" with the bills .. Now we are back to having late fees.. We got into a argument because I told him I think we should go back to doing it my way, he said he likes to know where the money is going and what type of spending money is left over , and I explained to him how I do it on paper and how I balance the account. He yells that's no different then what I do on the computer.... Obviously, there is a difference I keep our account out of the negative.. I'm so frustrated...