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okay so, i have fallen unexpectedly pregnant. its cool now, im gonna keep it, figure it out, fo whatever i have to do. but i honestly dont know if my fiance is ready or is even going to be good at this or very helpful. here are a few examples: hes been saying for two weeks that hes quitting smoking, when in fact he isnt making an effort at all (which is frustrating because i wuit cold turkey and it was “oh were a team, im quitting too” so much for that) we moved five weeks ago and he just fed the cats for the first time since the move the other day. the other night, i asked him to change the litter (again for the first time in 5 weeks)since i cant anymore and he “forgot” before trash night. i ended up doing it. again. im just starting to reconsider if this is who i want a baby with. i mean, i know nobody’s ever ready but if he cant do simple things, like keep a cat alive for gods sake, then i just... i dont know.. i dont know what to do or think. and i feel like my moms starting to notice these things and it’s embarrassing almost... i just DONT KNOW GUYS. and its so frustrating because when i first found out i was pregnant, i was absolutely gung-ho about exploring my options (early abortion, adoption, etc) and he kind of talked me into keeping it with the idea that he’d be 100%. now im so so so in love with my child already but im starting to notice all of the things about him i should have months ago.. im just scared and dont know what to do