My mom is trying to tell me this...

My mom has been amazing. She got married to my dad at 19. She got pregnant for me when she was 21 and had me at 22. That being said I am now 20 years old. I have a boyfriend that I’ve been with and lived with for 2 years now. Any time someone says anything about getting married my mom constantly says I’m not allowed to get engaged until I’m older. I’m sorry, I’m pretty sure that is mine and my boyfriend’s choice. Yesterday we were talking and she said I’m not having a baby until I’m 30. I told her that’s not happening. I want to start having babies before I’m 30 so by the time I’m 50, all my children are out of the house. I moved out when I was 18 and my mom was 40. Anyways. Am I wrong to tell her it’s not her decision and she is not allowed to make the calls on what I do? I’m not saying it in a rude way, but it is my life. It’s my choice on what I want to do with my life. Does she have a right to be mad at me?

NOTE: I am 20 years old. I have been living on my own for 2 years now. My boyfriend and I both have good jobs. And if one of us were to lose our job, the other makes enough to support both of us. Money is not an issue. I pay my own bills. I have plenty of extra money.