Dads changing their daughters

I'm having a daughter due December 12th and am so discusted from all these things on Facebook and the news about guys especially the fathers of the babies molesting and raping their baby girls.  My bf (her dad) dosent want any man changing her bathing her or alone with her no matter who they are family members included but I don't even want him changing her or bathing her...not because I think he would touch her but because I just think it's inappropriate cause she's a girl and I've seen to many crazy things online and on tv lately.  Does anyone else feel this way or am I just being to protective ?