Open Relationship 👫👭👬

Hello all! Let me preface with: if you oppose open/poly relationships, I request you don’t offer advice in this thread. I’m not looking for anything other than real work advice and experience from those that are currently in open ended relationships! If it offends you, move on!

LETS DISCUSS: how does one let go of jealous feelings in an open relationship? For some background: my partner and I are very very happily in love and live together and share a wonderful life and have for a while. We are both bisexual, and very physical beings and agreed that having an open relationship is the best move for us. I’ve never done it before, but I’ve always wanted to explore it. We’ve started with setting up our rules, and figured we’d get our feet wet by starting with online relationships. As in, he and I are both meeting various people within Facebook groups and on dating apps and swap nudes, discuss things of a sexual nature, etc. it’s great.

However- I feel like a hypocrite because he’s handling my activity with other men & girls pretty well, and even tho I support him pursuing other partners, I find myself feeling jealous. And I know it’s stupid, but THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE BEEN IN POLY RELATIONSHIPS: how do you get over that? Do you just eventually learn to let it go? We are about to make the jump into meeting partners in person a few times a week, I would like to have this issue addressed by then. Thanks if advance everyone