Red flags, should I end it?

So I’ve been hooking up with this guy for a bit. We are kinda friends, and he knows I recently got outta a pretty abusive relationship. The reason I told him is because it was sexually abusive.

Last night he wrote the name of his frat on me in lipstick, and it was fun, until he took pictures. I immediately started having a panic attack and told him I didn’t want him to have those. He said “well you have a premium snap so why isn’t this okay?” I said that I never post and when I do it’s extremely censored. He noticed I was really panicked and he deleted them and apologized. I told him that my ex would constantly share videos and stuff of me with my face and him doing it freaked me out.

He ended up buying me cookies and ice cream and cuddling me to try to help me calm down.

I never got vibes from him of being a bad guy until last night. Not to mention he tried to get me to do coke too, like trick me into taking it.

He said he had something to help giving head but wouldn’t tell me what it was until I’m like “it’s not coke, right?” Well it was.

I realize now that those are red flags. He really is sweet mostly, but the coke and the pics make me not want to see him again, no matter how good the sex is.

The title might seem stupid, but we aren’t dating so idk really.