Sleep sex?

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So this morning I was asleep at 4am woken up by my bf touch me and trusting his thing inside I just lay there and he keep humping I woke up confused and realized it was him didn’t do anything just stair at him.is this rape or I watch too much 13 reasons why?

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Don’t try and compare yourself to that show 🙄. But yes. You didn’t consent so technically it’s rape. 
I have different boundaries. My husband will literally wake me up with his pants off wanting to have sex 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Unless you have discussed it beforehand and explicitly given ongoing permission for sleek sex (some couples have had this discussion/agreement), then yes, it’s rape. Absolutely talk to him and tell him it’s no okay with you. If he does it again without explicit consent, I would definitely leave him

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If y'all haven't agreed to it then yes. Unless he was also asleep (sex-insomia is a thing but has to be diagnosed)

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For me this wouldn’t be an issue.. 
but for you, you need to be comfortable and have boundaries. However if you’ve never addressed said boundaries, he wouldn’t know. And there is a slight possibility you did respond while asleep and just don’t remember. (Similar to sleep talking/walking)

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It depends on your boundaries and your relationship. Me and my husband have had this conversation many times. He can wake me up with sex whenever he wants, and he does. So for me it’s completely consensual.

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Was he asleep too? Did you initiate the sex even if you were asleep? Did he know you were asleep? 
There are lots of factors that make it either rape or not rape.  If he was also asleep or didn't know you were asleep and you were having sleep sex then no it's not rape. If he knee you were asleep and had sex with you without consent then yes it is.

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Call me old school, but if I’m in a relationship than, my man had open consent once we agreed to be in that relationship...Society🙄

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Legally it’s plain out rape.  What you choose to do w that knowledge is your choice?  Stay?  Have him charged w rape? Leave? Etc.  but don’t doubt for a sec it was rape under the law.

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Definitely rape!!  I’m
So sorry this happened to you.  If you’d want to persecute I’d consider a rape kit and going to the police ASAP.  I’ve been raped as well.  If you need to talk feel free to private message me.  Again so sorry you went thru this.

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Yeaaaaa. I used to allow this but then changed my mind and it's never happened since then. Definitely need consent for that.

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