Ovulation and Changes

I broke up with my ldr boyfriend of 1 year today. I'm still a bit in shock. We had been intimate several times. Until he moved military bases. He called me names and was super condescending to me. I've wanted, been trying to escape this relationship for three months now. I'm really relieved it's over but now I'm like welp. Looks like I've gotta figure life out all over again. At least this time it will all be my choices not his.

Have any of you ladies been through this and where did you turn to figure out what you want for your life?