I'm about to have my 3rd and last baby and I'm just kinda sad I wont be having a baby shower. We are a military family and lived in japan and england when my other two were born and didnt really have a baby shower for either of them either. I did fly home at 30w with my oldest and even our family didnt want to throw one. I know it shouldn't matter but it just kinda hurts to feel like my baby's and myself dont seem to matter. It feels like that more when my husbands siblings have babies and the family goes overboard in celebrating them. It's not the gifts I'm after but just the acknowledgment of the new baby I think? Hope this makes sense.