Does you s/o hold it against you for tapping out AFTER you BOTH cum?

Question

Me and my boyfriend are getting into the habit of talking once a week. It’s been a week since we had sex, which we usually NEVER go that long without. (Rough patch)
 Well we had sex last night. I ended up tapping out after we BOTH came.
Then as we go to sit down an vent this week he says “my needs weren’t met, I wanted to keep going”
Ik I shouldn’t have gotten upset over venting, but it feels like he’s messing with my feelings like he’s saying that just to get more sex out of me.
He always complains about not having enough sex.

Answer

Sexual incompatibility is a real thing.
If his needs aren't being met, and it's too much for you  maybe you two are sexually incompatible.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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My current partner has never & probably never would hold it against me if I didn't want to have sex or got tired after we both came once.
I can see where he's coming from but he handled it wrong and objectified you. Personally, I think its wrong to expect a partner to fully sexually satisfy you, that's not realistic, two people have two different bodies and sex drives and a lot of emotional and physical factors come into play- you aren't always going to be fully sexually satisfied. That's just being a person, from what I can tell. Im sexually frustrated plenty of times, nobody is responsible for it.

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He shouldn't hold it against you. It is good that he's verbal about rather than being passive aggressive about it. Maybe there are things ya'll can do to get you back into it after a break or something. That's something ya'll will really have to figure out.

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Honestly it is frustrating when your sexual needs aren’t being met. If there’s a genuine reason, such as working crazy hours or being under a lot of stress, health issues or whatever, that’s one thing. 
But at one point it was the other way around in my relationship. We lived together and went from having sex like every day to maybe twice a week, and when we did have sex it was boring and quick and he’d be the only one to get off. All foreplay stopped from his end, and I was genuinely frustrated. 
There’s a time and a place to talk about our sexual needs with our partner and if there’s a problem, right before, after, or during sex is not the time. But you should talk. Explain that your emotional needs aren’t being met, he can explain what he needs sexually.

Does you s/o hold it against you for tapping out AFTER you BOTH cum?

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