Relationship advice

So I’m dating this guy and he is the most perfect t guy ever! However is hit some bumps in the road and need advice on what to do.

So we have been dating for almost 6 months and I have gone off to uni he is 4 hours away from me (drive). He gets along with my sister and my mum quite well. He asked if it would be okay to see them while I was up at uni, I explained how I was uncomfortable and I didn’t want him to see my family without me so early into the relation ship! My mum kinda asked me the same question and I replied with I don’t like the idea of it and I’m not very comfortable with it but as long as it’s not all the time. So I’m away at uni for a week and he is already arranging with my mum to come over for dinner with my sister and herself. I find out and am quite upset as I did explain i wasn’t comfortable with it? Should I be so upset that they went out of there way to ignore my feelings towards this situation.

Recently whenever I have been upset the guy I’m dating doesn’t really seem to want to talk to me, I know he cares but if I say Im not really okay but i will be okay, he normally leaves it there and ends the conversation.

What do I do?