was I raped? possible trigger

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My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Found videos on his phone from a night 2 years ago where him and I were drinking in our home. In the videos, I am passed out and naked in the shower. He is filming himself touching me. Then he films himself having sex with me in the bed. while I am unconscious!!!!! Then he put a bottle of hairspray inside me. 
I literally have no idea how to bring this up or what to do. Please help me! I'm so disgusted and ashamed. I really don't know what say.

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A bottle of hairspray?!! I’m disgusted!!!

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Wtf. Was he drunk too to do that shit?🤨 Idk that is rape and grounds for divorce if my man put a hairspray can in me while I'm passed out I'd shove a cheese grater up his ass

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Yes, you were raped. You can take that video to the police station.

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Your husband is a sick fucking bastard. He should be taking care of you if you are passed out, not sticking hairspray up your vagina. Wow. Part of me hopes this is a fake story because it’s so hard for me to believe someone you could marry would do this to you. Run girl run! And get that video and report his sick ass.

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This is rape.. if you didn’t give consent weather its your husband or not it’s rape. I’m so sorry you are going through this.😞

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Yes, you were absolutely raped! That’s 100% fucked up and not okay!
You need to tell him that what he did is wrong!

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Omg! This is the ultimate betrayal of trust... this is 100% rape and he filmed himself raping you?!?! I have no idea how to bring this up but I wouldn’t even feel safe.   Thinking of you x and I am so sorry you have to be going through this,  I cannot even imagine how you are feeling.

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Girl... yes. As if you need another person to tell you... but yes you were raped. Viciously. Find a way to get those videos yourself so he cant erase it and act like it didnt happen... and I wouldn't even bring it up until the police came for him... I'd go to the police, file for restraining order, press charges, change all the locks, pack his shit for him and put it in the yard, and keep anything you wanna keep, transfer any money in any account you have access to to a separate account he cant get in to... then when he comes home keep him locked out and if the police arent already there, call them then. Girl. He deserves jail time to the max

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Girl you should send that video to your phone before he deletes it and then confront him about it. I would also put his ass in jail for that. That is disgusting

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Wow he is a sick fuck!!!!
He raped you! You need to go to the police!
I cannot believe you've only just found it and had to endure this prick for 2 more years x

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