Surprise Gender Anyone?

I’m 28+5 with baby #2 and we decided to keep this baby’s gender a surprise. With my 1st we found out at 14w, we had 3 baby showers, I had to get induced, had an epidural, stayed in the hospital, all that. With THIS one we’re having a home birth and keeping gender a surprise and everyone and they mama wanna complain about it 😑 they’re suspect cuz I refuse to have a gender neutral baby shower, instead I’m planning a sip & see but everyone wants me to have a baby shower that I DONT EVEN WANT it’s so frustrating and I just wanna know I’m not alone with this 😤