Writing on here so I don’t lose my sh*t with my partner. We are TTC and he doesn’t want to know when I’m ovulating etc. (Fine all good I won’t tell him), but literally every single month on the day of my positive OPK and the day after (and often just before) he doesn’t want sex.... every single time. And I’m beyond fed up and frustrated I want to 😢 cry.

I just feel like I’ll never get pregnant and this whole thing is too much and I’m done.

****update so I can answer here, I’ve tried talking to him calmly several times about how I felt and he says he prefers not to know when Im ovulating (pressure and I get that)...and will try harder as he wants a baby... but then it comes to it and he has every excuse in the book. Finding it hard to be patient when it’s every month. He never had an issue with sex drive in the past I thought he would be thrilled!

Funny thing is men are allowed to say they don’t want to know it’s pressure... so then we are left alone with the pressure and burden. I’m so disappointed this isn’t fun and a shared experience ☹️ lying here while he sleeps silently upset as I watch another month slip away from me.

Thanks to anyone who answers 💕 at least we all have this space to vent and support each other 💕