I'm annoyed 97% of the time

Finding it so hard to choose my battles with my husband lately. I find myself making a big deal over little things and I know I'm acting insane but I just can't let go. It's like a snowball. I can't stop. And then a fight happens and it just makes me more angry. And he doesn't understand why I'm being so crazy, even though he knows I'm hormonal and crazy, so I get even more mad because I feel like he's being a douchebag on purpose even though I KNOW I'm the one who is starting something that shouldn't mean so much. Anyone else??? Ughhhh.