Advice or vent?

I don't know if I need advice or I just need to vent but here it goes. My husband doesn't help at all around the house. Like at all. The only time he does, is when I've asked him to but then I'm "nagging" and he gives me attitude about it and while helping. I've told him several times what he can help me out with. Hell! I've even written it down and put on our fridge so if he "forgets", he can look and see what he could do. But he doesn't. It really makes me feel disrespected because I've tried conveying to him how it makes me feel when he just expects me to do everything but he chooses to ignore it. It's basically like a big FU to me because in his head, I'm sure he's thinking, "she'll clean it up anyway. I might get bitched at but I can handle that". It really hurts me that my partner isn't a team player 😔 we both work full time so it's not like I'm at home and could be doing everything or vice versa. Any opinions on what I should do to solve this issue? Thanks