significant other rant

so ladies, I'm a few weeks pregnant. My boyfriend seems to think he's the one that will have to go thru hell & back for this child (I'm 19, he's 20). his family is excited, mine is religious and is pissed. I go to a elite Christian college. I will literally have to face cristizim every damn day for this child, along with the aches and pains of pregnancy. but he thinks he'll have to go thru hell? because he has to save money for the first time in his life? he thinks people are going to criticize him? even though nobody will even know he has a kid on the way unless he's standing next to me? we don't even live together. he said he has to deal with my mood swings. excuse me? no. you don't. my family does, because you can't man tf up and get us a place together. I'm so beyond pissed. I had to rant. tell me I'm right and he's wrong please. 😌