Help! Baby boss

I think I’ve spoiled my son a little too much and now it’s like i have a baby boss. He won’t fall asleep unless he’s in my arms and will start crying as soon as I put him down. Also he uses my nip as a pacifier to fall asleep even if he’s not hungry Its like a way of him making sure I’m there. It’s really stressful because it takes a lot of time from things I need to get done. I’ve tried 3 different kinds of pacifiers including the one the hospital gave me which is the only one he sometimes takes and the avent green soothie. Any recommendations on pacifiers that have worked for your babies and on any good swings?