Hello! This is baby number 2 for me and im 12weeks 5days. I have a 15 month old son. I have no want or need to announce this baby to my family. My mom knows and my husbands mom knows only because we planned a trip to see them before i knew and i didnt have a choice.

Here is why...my family doesnt live close (about 4 hours away) and they dont seem to give a rats ass about my 15 month old so why bother to share the news when i feel like they dont care about the one i have? BUT on the other hand...i feel like ppl are going to think im ashamed or didnt want this baby. Anyone deal with this?