Any others?

Bonnie

Hi ladies.

I’m 24 with two little girls, to my partner of 8 years almost.

I am really struggling and in two minds about what to do..

I don’t feel any sexual chemistry with him anymore and probably haven’t really for years tbh.. but our relationship is perfect. We rarely fight, even if we do it’s usually a bicker and over in an hour. I feel like I also haven’t experienced enough life as an adult woman, as an independent person. And feel like if I don’t experience it then I’ll just keep having this thing in the back of my mind that feels trapped and unsure. I love him so much, he’s literally the perfect partner.. so I’m so hesitant so leave him. I don’t know if it would be a fucking huge mistake or the best thing I’ve ever done. Can anyone tell me their experiences with this :/

I’ll mention we broke up about 4.5-5 years ago way before kids and I felt like the world stopped and knew it was a mistake.. but now I feel like this again but we have kids and it makes it so more complicated and hard to know what’s right. TIA