My boyfriend is addicted to porn.

Tara

So coming from my last post, my boyfriend and i haven’t had sex but only once the past 2 months. Last night i went through his phone to find he’s been watching porn...a-lot... i was furious because this was the second time i have caught him doing this while neglecting our sex life. I confronted him about it today waiting for the right time.

I waited a few hours, he knew something was wrong i was ignoring him a-lot and kinda distant... so I finally got up the courage to talk to him....

So we talked like an hour, he told me he’s self conscious about his body, and he told me hes uncomfortable during sex and then hes told me hes had a problem since he was very young, i guess he’s addicted to porn. He says he tries to stop but he cant, and that this has been a problem with every girl hes ever dated. But i told him he needs to change if he wants to be with me. I told him if it keeps happening (watching porn and ignoring sex with me) we will definitely break up. I also asked if he wanted to take a break and he almost cried and said he cant go a day with out me and he loves me.

Since then he hadn’t wanted to leave my side today. He’s been super affectionate, and sweet. We had a spontaneous and passionate kiss a few minutes ago for the first time in a while. He said he’s gonna try and talk to me when he feels the urge to watch porn. (I don’t mind that he watches porn, it just that he wants to get off with porn and never touch me that i have a problem with). Well i guess i will see how this goes. Im sure i will update later on about how it goes. Wish us luck! ❤️

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