Sex???

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I cannot understand how some women want to have sex 2 weeks PP (I admire you ladies!!!!) I’m 6 weeks and I’m having nightmares just thinking about it 😂 
I’m a FTM and tore pretty bad. I’m traumatized 😆 does it go away? I miss my husband lol
Ok just needed to get it out there 👀

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Dude I’m torn. 
Part of me has been wanting to have sex the moment I walked out of the hospital and the other part is terrified bc what if it’s different? What if it hurts? What if I just don’t enjoy it as much as I thought I did?
Anyone else feel like this? 😭😅

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I wanted to since coming home. However, this was our 3rd baby and by far my easiest labor and delivery. I had zero tears. My body was sore for sure. 
We made it to 4 weeks. Then we had sex and it was great.
But please I beg you, if you tore, have stitches or are still bleeding, please just wait until you get cleared by your ob.

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We had sex 3.5 week pp. I didn't tear and my foof snapped back like the legend she is but I was hangin for the diddly and boy was it fabulous 😂

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With my first I waited until I was cleared after 6 weeks with my second I waited 2 weeks but I told my husband to go slow and make sure I was actually wet. It didn’t hurt for me but I had a first degree tear nothing bad
If you’re willing to try it just make sure you go slow and don’t go too deep right away either!

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I was ready to have some fun immediately! I had an easy delivery.. no tear, no issues at all! I’m still bleeding but I truly would love to have sex again! I don’t have any pain down there at all! I have my postpartum appointment tomorrow so waiting to see what my ob says!

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I am traumatized this time around. I tore and felt the ring of fire so thinking of something going on there really doesn’t sit well with me. Lol with my first I only had an abrasion on my labia and stopped bleeding at a week and had sex right around then. Thinking back to it I think I was crazy lol

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With my first I had a third degree tear. I was cleared at 6 weeks but was not ready lol. I tried at 7 weeks but chickened out because it hurt a bit. Tried again at 8 weeks and all was fine. Just listen to your body and take it slow! Everything goes back to normal eventually 😊

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I had a second degree tear with my first and was not looking forward to it at all. To be honest, it wasn’t exactly painful, just uncomfortable at first. It definitely got better and back to feeling normal. This time, I had a smaller baby with no tearing and a very smooth delivery/recovery so I felt ready like a week after 😂 Still waiting until 6 week appointment but I thought it was funny how different it was this time.

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Feeling exactly the same.. I’m terrified lol FTM here and had a second degree tear. I’m still feeling a lot of pain and can still see my stitches at 3 weeks pp 🤔 hoping all is normal

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With my first I wanted too! But I had a really easy recovery! Waited til 5 weeks. My second was a bit more rough by 8 weeks I getting frustrated and it hurt a bit more but then after that it was fine.

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