Can I please just catch a break ? 😒

So here I am back at the hospital being monitored . I'll try making this short but Last week my blood pressure was higher then normal and I ended up going to the hospital Friday night . Ran tests , nothing came up alarming to them . Was suppose to do the whole 24 hour "pee in a jug" but literally when I came back from the hospital that Friday night , I got the most horrifying call 😔 My mom told me my dads heart had stopped BUT her working skills kicked in and immediately proceeded CPR on him . He's alive , doing "well" to my understanding ...but my mind was definitely else where & I know I need to think of my baby and myself of course but having such a huge heart & life's crazy ways and these preggo hormones of mine it was just hard to find that balance in me . Especially being in the moment of a serious matter ! So I never did that . Then I get a call yesterday saying I failed my glucose test . So I gotta take the 3 hour one this coming up Monday . Went in the Dr's office today because I needed my Rhogam shot , like NOW . Wasn't my regular visit apt  . I was just squeezed in and they checked blood pressure as usual and again it was sky high 😒 they told me to go to labor and delivery (2nd round) for more monitoring & same tests that were done last time . I told them that my blood pressure has been higher than normal way before my dads incident so I don't know what is going on . I mean do I have diabetes for sure ? What if that comes back positive and I'm okay (3 hour test) ? What in the world . 😣 has anyone have/had blood pressure issues ?! What's your story ?! 😕