Is your relationship “hard” sometimes?

Question

I’ve been with my boyfriend almost 4 years now and sometimes I find that maintaining it is hard 🤔 it’s not a bad thing really.. it’s just sometimes keeping up with it (making sure we’re both happy, keeping the “spark” in our relationship alive, fixing any problems we may have, etc) could be difficult. Do you or have you ever felt this way?
Btw, not saying I’m the only one who does those things because my boyfriend definitely is the best ❤️

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Yes. When I got pregnant, my SO and I hit a rough patch because he was so anxious about becoming a father that he distanced himself a TON. Then I miscarried and he blamed himself for a long time. But we’ve worked things out and we’re all good again!

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I never felt it was hard until this month. He's been working 12-14 hour shifts, sometimes 6 days in a row before having just one day off. It's been insanely hard on our relationship. It's hard to feel connected when you never get to see eachother. It got really bad last week but we talked about it and found ways to still try to feel close despite the situation. But until this month it came so easy and naturally. (Been together a little over 4 years)

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Having those kind of hard times in a relationship can be slightly annoying from time to time, but when both people in the relationship are willing to work through it... it just makes it so much easier when you think about it all. When you both put in effort and have heart to hearts to make sure your relationship is still going strong, it shows you that you’ve found the best person to spend your life with. My husband and I have been together for over 8 years now and let me tell you, it’s been a struggle for a little bit of it. But in the end, I wouldn’t want to imagine going through any of those struggles with anyone else.

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All relationships are hard sometimes. As long as it’s not hard more than it’s easy, it’s worth it.
I love my boyfriend more than anything else and there’s no doubt he’s the love of my life but we still have bad days.

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I think all relationships go through their ups and downs. What it comes down to is if the good times are worth the more difficult times, or at least that’s how I see it.

Is your relationship “hard” sometimes?

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