Edit: Always changes subject

So anytime I talk to my husband about something it’s like he changes the subject of turns it around to be about him. For example I told my husband today I was feeling sick and instead of saying hope you feel better he goes “yeah I’ve been feeling sickly too”

That’s just one small example but it’s like he doesn’t acknowledge what I say or does/brushes it off and changes the subject to something related to him. When I try to talk to him about something I swear he doesn’t process what I’m saying. It’s frustrating and exhausting 😕

Edit: also some background in the beginning of our marriage he was secretly sexting females he met online. I decided to stay and he promised to work on our marriage. While in therapy he said it felt good when other women were telling him he was attracted and all that. It’s definitely been tough building trust back and he’s made an effort but idk if maybe I’ll never be able to get over it