Would you be upset!?

My grandpa is potentially dying in the hospital, I’ve been there all day. I had to skip work and left my toddler at his other grandmas for the day. I’ve called my husband multiple times and couldn’t get ahold of him- he was working, BUT he never calls back. I finally got ahold of him asking if he’d like to come visit my grandpa that he’s not doing well, and I’m starving and his response was “ I’m so cold, and tired from work. I need a shower. I’m just going home. Maybe tomorrow” I just said k cya later. I’ve been crying and upset and now I don’t even have his support. I ended up going to get something to eat alone and trying to hold back my tears.