What do I Do?

So my mom met my boyfriend and it wasn’t formal or anything and he didn’t walk up and introduce himself, he sort of waited for me to introduce him and she thinks he was extremely rude and said he behaves as though he is in trouble or has done something wrong and is trying to hide (he is extremely shy) and is upset he doesn’t come over and hang out with my family but at the same time won’t let me visit him. I don’t want to have him around my family too much because they all dislike the idea of me dating and don’t like him and I don’t want to drag him into that environment.

She says we’ve had different upbringings and that he is very different, opposite even if me and that he’s “ just different” and something along the lines of not like us.

I don’t want to break up with him at all and we care about each other very much but it seems I will never be allowed to see him.