Feeling Discouraged

This is my 3rd Clomid cycle due to my PCOS. I have taken a test with BFN results. Cycle is predicted to start in 4 days. We are a same sex couple and have to use known donor sperm via home insemination. Some days I get upset due to the Coworkers and clients at work repeatedly asking “are you pregnant yet?” “Just do it the old fashion way, it’ll happen first try!” I don’t think these people know how hard it is when you don’t ovulate. I’m going for a HSG after my cycle to see if tubes are clogged. I’m at the point that I kind of want to give up but then again my dream is to be a l some day. My mom has 7 kids, both grandmothers has 2 and 12, sisters as 3 and another sister had 1 and routed to abortion 😢 I just don’t understand why me with PCOS?!