Unsupported husbands

Am I the only one with a husband that's not being supportive through this? I hate going through this alone. He's not even going to come to the hospital when I have my d&c which I'm having Monday. We had an event planned for monday night and all he asks is so are we still going to that? Um , no. I'm getting my dead baby sucked out of me sorry your unhappy that we can't go to the crab feast... this is just so painful and frustrating..