I used a small toy, it had four inch girth and was about 3 inches long. I’ve never done penetration before (i’m a virgin) so I eased into it but now it feels a bit sore down there. Does this mean I will feel less sore the first time I have sex? I didn’t bleed when I did it with the toy, the only area that hurt was near the opening when I inserted the toy and it still hurts around there but my hymen is already torn, so..?