I don’t know what to do

I broke with my ex 2 years 6 months ago because of his insecurity and lack of attentions, after a year he got engaged with someone else almost got married, something happened to them they broke up since then he been texting me back, asked to see me and forgiveness. I have been refused to answer his messages. That’s been going on for 10 months, all my family loves him. But have been dating my new boyfriend for 2 years and 3 months already I love him so much. But I am sure he never realized how much I love him. My new boyfriend never presents me to his family I asked multiple time, he always says he is so shy. I am 31 and he is 41 years old, he never really interests

to talk about our future. Every time I talk about kids he always answer but also always try to change the conversation. I don’t want to take that conversation with him anymore ( about meeting his family) . And my Ex keeps texting me, wants to meet to have a talk, he’s ready for everything. His family loves me. I am so confused now, I don’t know what to do, please help